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Thursday, February 11, 2010

will Enjoy !?

Please read, and consider on whether if you are a friend to another. Or if you are just someone who stays by another side with the term ally stuck to your name.

Friends
Are people who don't leave you when you need them
That even in the worse of times, they stay by your side and help you through tough experiences that you go through.

Friends are people who you can trust and depend on.
People that you can rely on deeply without any troubling issues.
Best friends are spawned like so.
They check up on you.
They hang out with you.
And they want to be with you without feeling uncomfortable.

Friends are people who don't backstab you making you feel defenseless when you really need them.
They are the ones that make you feel joy and happiness all year around.
They don't leave you unless for a specific reason.

Friends are people who you cherish and they cherish you in return.
They are the ones you turn to when you are down, and they, as friends, make you feel happy.
What is a friend?

By looking at the definition on dictionary.com, you will see that it says someone that you trust. A person who gives assistance, a supporter, a patron, or a person on good terms with another, not someone who is hostile.

They are an acquaintance. A person with whom one is allied in a struggle or a cause, a comrade.
One who one sympathizes with.Yes these are definitions taken from dictionary.com.
Friends make friendships happen.
Taken from Wikipedia, this is what it says about friendship.

Friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more people. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection and respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis.

Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them.

Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:
the tendency to desire what is best for the other,
sympathy and empathy,
honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one's counterpart
mutual understanding.

This is what a friend is. And friendship as well.
I hope you people know what you are by being a friend of another.


The end.

p/s: read and think about it okeh peeps.

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